I started writing as a means of expressions and solely for myself. Somewhere along the way I turned into a people-pleaser hence neglecting the main idea of why I started this blog and it’s purpose. Because let’s be honest here, no one wants to read rants where they thought it’d be all rainbows. But you gotta put up with the storm if you want rainbows, ey? 🙂

There’s been negativity that’s been thrown my way this past few weeks & I’m been working on doing a major people-cleanse.

Some may find it childish having blocked/deleted them off social media, but that also enabled me to block them out of my life and in return, helped me move along without any distractions. Do I miss them? Sometimes. But never long enough for it to matter.

My ex(people) taught me a lot. For that, I am thankful. But right after we ‘broke up’, it’s typical to go through several stages; resentment, anger, sadness, which eventually leads to the blame game and ending up in hate (& these are just ‘friends’ I’m referring to).

I can finally look at them and feel happy in a genuine way. Does that mean I want to reconnect and have them in my life? No. It means I’ve learnt to accept we’ve crossed paths for a reason and likewise didn’t continue the journey together for a reason, whatever the reason may be.

Can’t wait to find out what this wonderful journey called life has in store for me. Hit me with your best shot!

Not-so-ordinary,
Harmini Asokumar

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