As I sit back with a cup of green tea *yum* and reflect on how the year has been, I’m overcome with a sense of gratitude for all the wonderful things the Universe sent my way. I couldn’t have asked for more even if I wanted to.

Every year, I take the end of December to write down my thoughts, plan my next move and see how much I’ve grown. These  past two years have made such a difference in how I see myself and the people around me, I do know for a fact the following year will be the same.

While some may roll their eyes at the very notion of me writing a list of resolutions; it’s not a magical list that will work if you don’t. Here’s me knowing I have a goal to reach and a purpose in life. I can’t wait for 2016 to let me explore all my options and experience new adventures.

2015 was the year I grew completely sure of myself.  The year I fell in love with all over again Deeper Than Fashion and wanted so much more from it, so I took the plunge and worked my ass off on it full time. The year I also fell in love with sarees and more of my culture. The year I learnt so much about taking care of myself and putting my needs as a priority. The year my beautiful niece was born and it was evident that unconditional love worked like magic. The year I learnt that happiness is within my own grasp.

The usual rollercoaster of friendships is something that happens without fail but here’s the catch; some people who walked out, walked back in completely changed and at peace with themselves, which made it so much easier for everything to fall into place. There’s always room for people who bring in good energy.

Starting my 2016 with my 100 days of happy project; where I write about one thing every day that made me happy. Something I can be thankful for. Something I know will make all the difference. I’m pretty sure I’ll find more than one thing I’m happy about on a daily basis.

Here’s to a beautiful year ahead, beautiful people. Looking forward to having you in it, filled with all the positivity and good energy you bring 🙂

Hey 2016, bring it!;
Harmini Asokumar

As life gets the best of me because I’m making the best of it, I’m neglected this space and I apologise; running my own empire at my own terms has proven to be a bigger challenge than I thought it would be and the perfectionist in me won’t rest until I’m where I want to be. Where that is, I’m not even quite sure yet, all I know is I’ll get there and when I do I’ll know it.

With so many blessings headed my way, there’s been some downfalls which lead to some dancing in the rain awaiting the rainbow to appear. You know I love my rainbows 🙂

Signing in to send some love, light & good vibes your way. I’ll make it a personal goal to update as much as possible; there’s a pending list of 50+ topics I need to write about. I’ll get to it & hopefully you’ll love it.

Guess who’s back , back again,
Harmini Asokumar (‘s back tell a friend)

It’s been a long time coming, but I finally decided to pull the plug. The plug to my 9-6 job that is. I decided to leave my job for my art & the journey ahead seems scary but so promising. If I were to be completely honest, I always knew this day would come. I wish it had come sooner, but then again, I live with no regrets but lessons learnt.

I’ve been running Deeper Than Fashion for almost five years now, quite successfully I might add. Most people didn’t even know I worked a 9-6 job because I managed to handle the work load from both jobs. Then I thought to myself, if I managed to create so much with limited time in my hands, image all the possibilities of what I could do with more time? I could then focus on unleashing all my creative juices and have the freedom to chase the things that make me happiest.

A flashback to when I was on a job hunt and I sent in my resume to a well-known and respected media through a friend, only to have been turned down because & I quote “My editor think you aren’t someone who is meant to sit at a desk and work, you will just stifle your creativity. You need to explore!”. He had no idea how right he was, and I will forever be thankful someone said that to me to further clarify what I already knew.

It took a lot of convincing for the people around me to finally accept I was not molded the way they were, especially when it came to things like financial stability. As much as I’m a dreamer, I’m very much a realist too & I won’t pretend money isn’t a factor. It always is but it’s never been one that played a key role in my life. If I wanted something, I would just need to work harder for it. I wanted happiness and to just breathe. 

Being given the freedom to be my own boss also gives me a chance to create and fulfill my own destiny. I’m taking this leap away from the conventional work force, to focus on creating a work force that is truly my own. Here’s a perfect time for me to prove to myself that I am capable of making my dreams come true.

I’m truly grateful for the opportunities I’ve had in the past & to be able to create my own future opportunities. The Universe has been kind, and I am thankful for all the blessings. Mostly I am thankful to YOU for being a support system, motivation and constant inspiration! 

Here’s to me embarking in a brand new adventure. Much love & light to everyone.

It’s new dawn, it’s a new day, it’s a new life,
& I’m feeling good,
Harmini Asokumar